Straight cis people will support lgbt+ people when it’s convenient to them (gay best friends, hot lesbian porn) but the second a straight guy meets a gay guy, he’s uncomfortable. Or when a straight girl meets a lesbian, she’s uncomfortable. Or when a trans person uses their correct bathroom, then they’re uncomfortable. Or when a non binary person asks them to use they/them pronouns, cis people make memes to invalidate them.
If you’re not going to support all of us at all times, then we really don’t need you.
It’s nice to be told you’re beautiful or hot or whatever, but I’d love to hear some say that I make things easier, that they’re happy I exist, they don’t know what they’d do with out me, I’m strong, that they hope we never lose each other, that they’re proud of me, that I have something to offer. Compliments don’t always have to be about appearance.